Synthetic Sex and “Being Yourself”

Slavoj Žižek is a Slovenian philosopher, currently a researcher at the Department of Philosophy of the University of Ljubljana Faculty of Arts

He talked about how the best way to be with a partner is to not worry about personal details with each other it’s just to appreciate each other and have a nice date and the rest will work its magic.

If you meet someone online and they tell you what would have made it perfect like “losing 3-4 pounds,” you shouldn’t because then that makes you more plain and the extra 3-4 pounds is something he didn’t appreciate enough and isn’t good enough for you.

If you and. partner can get to know each other and be comfortable around one another, synthetic sex is an option as it is more relaxing and gives the opportunity to not stress about performance and gives more enjoyment in the moment.